7th Anniversary of my father's death

Got this from my neighbor and it showed me places of  my late father which I have never been. In fact we were discouraged from visiting but when we brought the kids to Beijing during the Olympics year he thought it was a good idea. He doesn't recommend that we get to know the extended family especially his younger brother whom he had sent money regularly for decades. He regarded him as a leech and useless bump and wanted to protect us from him. This is the seventh year and as far as I know nobody told my uncle that he is gone.